Friday, 19 August 2016

Is Religion Relevant in the 21st Century?


21st century! The time of modernization of human civilization with utmost rapidity. Look at it from a century back, and you’ll find we achieved those heights which people didn't even imagine then. Today in the 21st century, men have reasons enough to be proud for their unique achievements. From stepping on the moon or cloning genes, there has been a long list of tremendous success of science and technology.

Now, let’s dive a little deeper and try to understand what drove us into building whatever we call modern. “What were the basic goals of humanity in the last century?” is the first question which quite obviously gushes into our mind. The simplest answer to it comes in succession with the question itself, it is ever-known, that, we humans had been in the eternal quest to know how to overcome suffering and attain universal peace and happiness. “How can we have a sustainable life on this planet?” always topped the chart. 20th century, being a 100 long years of experimentation from great to sometimes horrifying results. We've experimented with Communism, free-market Liberalism, Fascism, Nazism, Direct and Representative Democracy, Capitalism, Genetic Engineering, hyper-consumerism, the culture of consumerism and entertainment provided by our modern capitalist society, medicines, and what not? All of these, trying to overcome the human suffering and to achieve permanent peace and satisfaction.

And, a hundred years later, the scientists reported last year to be the hottest year in the entire history of humanity. So, after a hundred years of all these we’re beginning to see, that not only we’ve not succeeded but in actuation we’re ruining our habitat, hence, destroying any chance of our future success, by our attempts to extract happiness out of consumption from the external materialistic world.

Traditional religion is on its way out, that’s quite for sure! We've tried to replace it by priests and then by therapists. Alternatives, it seems came in every generation for religion because it was never perfect, otherwise it is hard to believe why humanity would seek something else and better in its place. Off late, we tried to deal our problems in a much secular way, you have a mental problem, go to the therapist. Just look at the history of therapy in the past 100 years, it is now the need in every nook and corner of the world.

In the advanced countries of the west, as development is on the steep rise, people are slowly losing faith in religions. As communities become developed, there is high job guarantee, people are safe and they can fulfill their materialistic goals, which bring mental peace and satisfaction to a certain level. Hence, people tend to lose interest in religion, i.e., dropping attendance in churches and so on and so forth.

Now comes the major striking point. I believe, this is rather the best argument for real spirituality, because, when we've got a perfect society, everything is stable, our materialistic needs are fulfilled, we no more have to go to god and beg money; when our health needs are fulfilled, we need not go to a church or a temple to beg for a good health, because we've a highly developed medical system already (though most of us doubt our healthcare systems even today).

Basically there are two kinds of problem –

  •       Problem of poverty,
  •       Problem of plenty.


In the west we’d see the latter leads while the prior is still found in a great number of our eastern countries. Both are problems, I agree, but problems of plenty are always logically to be preferred over the problems of poverty when the chips are down.

After all these, having a life surrounded by technology, money, physical well-being and a civil society, we find we are still not satisfied. People are still unhappy, they are lonely, and they still have this meaninglessness and a strange vacuum in their lives. Reasonably speaking, what more can the world give us? Whatever we’re experiencing here and now is beyond the dreams the whole of our humanity ever saw. Whatever the world could give us, we’re experiencing it here, especially, in the advanced countries of the west. At this point, if we’re not satisfied and still seeking something more, then I’d say this is rather the strongest argument in favor of spirituality and religion and this can be concluded as the core reason behind why the ancient spirituality had been coming down since the time immemorial to the times of utmost modernity, changing its shape and size and fitting into different societies as per the need of the hour and silently transforming lives of people in millions, if not billions.


To conclude, just like I am a Hindu, I wear a Panjabi whereas one of my Muslim brother may wear a Pathani suite and a Christian brother may wear a blazer over his shirt. Hence, the outer appearance may look completely different, but we are made of the same blood and flesh inside the clothes, there is no distinction on that. Religion and spirituality are just the same. A religion or the other may fade off to nothingness (just as we can shed our clothes to wear a new one), but the core essence of any religion is the same spirituality, which cannot ever vanish from this world due to something ends only when it begins, that cannot die which is not born. Different religions are the different manifestations of the same spirituality. So, we need not bother about a religion’s death or birth of a new one, because the change in time ensures the changes in the societal requirement and as I've already mentioned, spirituality will take a new shape in every new society being created, which we should accept with joy unequivocal.


Let all beings be happy, let all beings be peaceful.

Thanks,
Aakash.

Thursday, 6 March 2014

INDIA and its ill fated fabrication of WOMEN being "Second Grade Citizen" !

 INDIA, a country with over 1.21 billion people as per records in 2011 census with more than a sixth of the world's population, is booming with all the multifaceted opportunities for one and all. We are living in the times, when the effects of Globalization has hit even the core portions of the third world countries. So what ? This is what our forefathers had been living and dreaming for, isn't it so ? This is the kind of Independence what our grandparents fought for. Still if we give a closer look onto the condition of our societies all over the country, does it seem to be perfect ? Does it seem to be the 'dream come true' which our forefathers thought of ? I hope all of you will answer with a big 'NO'.


I know there is a plethora of problems we are facing to actually move forward, thousands of people are working on these things day and night, doing research, keeping up marches, rallies, going against the political parties, fighting their life out, just for the 'betterment' of our country and the present plaque. Since everyone is busy finding and creating solutions for these things, i will nobly choose a single problem, which, i believe is the grass-root problem of all the other problems. That is, Women, still today, are treated as the "Second Grade Citizen" of this nation. This problem is not a new one, its an age old problem residing for the last hundreds of years or so,


Some facts and figures -

The Indian women’s mortality rate is the second-highest in the world. More than 60 per cent of Indian women are illiterate. For every 1000 men, there are only 933 women in India, while the world’s average is 990 women for every 1000 men. Every year, of 15 million baby girls in India, almost 25 per cent do not live to celebrate their 15th birthday. Adult women take in approximately 1,000 fewer calories for one day than men in India. Every 34 minutes, a rape occurs.


These statistics are a reality faced by Indian women even today. Although officially having the same legal status as men, they still have to live with a very patriarchal system in place in modern India.


 Confusion on the laws present in this country ? Okay, then let me share a rebuttal made by Swami Vivekananda at Cambridge.


Swami Vivekananda faced bigotry in America on several issues of Indian culture — one was the Indian woman. Here’s his rebuttal -

I have often heard that there are other passages where women are condemned. I admit that in our sacred books there are many passages which condemn women as offering temptation. But there are also passages that glorify women as the power of God. And there are other passages which state that in that house where one drop of a woman’s tear falls, the gods are never pleased and the house goes to ruin. Drinking wine, killing a woman and killing a Brahmin are the highest crimes in Hinduism.
Next, I will come to our old dramas. Whatever the books say, the dramas are the perfect representation of society as it then existed. In these, which were written from 400 years before Christ onward, we find even universities full of both boys and girls. We would not (now) find Hindu women, as they have since become cut off from higher education. But (at that time), they were everywhere pretty much the same as they are in this country — going out to the gardens to take promenades.
There is another point which I bring before you and where the Hindu woman is still superior to all other women in the world — her rights. The right to possess property is as absolute for women in India as for men — and has been for thousands and thousands of years.
If you have any lawyer friend and can take up commentaries on the Hindu law, you will find it all for yourselves. A girl may bring a million dollars to her husband, but every dollar of that is hers. Nobody has any right to touch one dollar of that. If the husband dies without issue, the whole property of the husband goes to her, even if his father or mother is living. And that has been the law from the past to the present time. That is something which the Hindu woman has had beyond that of the women of other countries.
The older books — or even newer books — do not prohibit the Hindu widows from being married; it is a mistake to think so. They give them their choice, and that is given to both men and women. The idea in our religion is that marriage is for the weak, and I don’t see any reason to give up that idea today. They who find themselves complete — what is the use of their marrying? And those that marry — they are given one chance. When that chance is over, both men and women are looked down upon if they marry again; but it is not that they are prohibited. It is nowhere said that a widow is not to marry. The widow and widower who do not marry are considered more spiritual. Men, of course, break through this law and go and marry; whereas women — they being of a higher spiritual nature — keep to the law. For instance, our books say that eating meat is bad and sinful, but you may still eat such-and-such a meat —mutton, for instance. I have seen thousands of men who eat mutton, and never in my life have I seen a woman of higher caste who eats meat of any kind. This shows that their nature is to keep the law — keeping more towards religion. But do not judge too harshly of Hindu men. You must try to look at the Hindu law from my position too, for I am a Hindu man.
This non-marriage of widows gradually grew into a custom. And whenever in India a custom becomes rigid, it is almost impossible to break through it — just as in your country, you will find how hard it is to break through a five-day custom of fashion. In the lower castes, except two, the widows remarry.

Excerpts from Vivekananda’s lecture Cambridge on December 17, 1894.
 [Taken from the "Daily Pioneer" news website]


I am not saying Swami Ji was wrong in any ways, but trying to show even within the legal system, there are some laws that greatly disadvantage women – Hindu law gives women limited rights to inheritance while under Muslim law, polygamy is allowed. Laws are not enough to safeguard women and empower them in all the ways of life. Hence, there are many researches done on WHY women are treated as secondary in this country, be it a city or a village, one of them is as follows -


"Sons are called upon to provide the income; they are the ones who do most of the work in the fields. In this way sons are looked to as a type of insurance. With this perspective, it becomes clearer that the high value given to males decreases the value given to females." (Marina Porras, "Female Infanticide and Foeticide".)


 Since the independence of India, there has been much progress for gender equality as many laws are passed to ensure the protection of women’s rights. This includes laws related to dowry, rape, prostitution and obscenity. While we acknowledge that activists have made some changes in the constitution, traditions are not something that can be altered easily by law. On the one hand, while women are getting their legal rights, crime against women are actually on the rise. Women get raped even by their brothers, fathers or father-in-laws. In fact, female infanticide still occurs today.


 Some of the basic problems still persisting in this country are -


     1) Dowry - This process of possession of material and money by the husband from the wife's family is illegal but is still prevalent, even if it can be complained to the police but the families of the daughter and the wives are forced not to complain in place of life and many other important things. Even the laws persisting today are slightly incorrect since dowry is still taken in the other way round, though it has been successful to reduce the dowry rates all over the country by many folds. DOWRY was primarily a farewell gift, given out of love. These days its outrageous to see, this dowry is more SNATCHED from the bride's parents who shed their blood and sweat to marry their daughter. The dowry abuse may even be one of the reasons resulting in female infanticide as couples want to avoid the burden of paying a dowry. Dowry is prevalent in all sectors of society.

The reasons for offering dowry may vary.

LOWER AND MIDDLE CLASS PEOPLE :-

1. Give it out of Compulsion.
2. To get (buy?) a groom in better status than that of theirs.
3. Gossips of having unmarried girl at home is torturing.
4. Fear of 3rd parties unnecessary comments and comparisons (uncles aunts neighbours).

UPPER MIDDLE CLASS AND HIGH CLASS PEOPLE :-

1. Offer dowry willingly to SHOW OFF THEIR STATUS.
2. False prestige. (ESP among upper middle class)
3. Find unique, creative and new ways to spend money in name of dowry. (Decorative attires, cakes, wedding arrangements, kitchen utilities, tickets for honeymoon, etc are some which may come under this category).

So long as its done willingly its acceptable, but these upper middle class and higher class people should realize, that they are indirectly responsible for dowry. The usage and practice of any system determine the demand for the same in an increasing way.

The dowry problem wears a serious face, when its been forced upon or coerced. The results of this horrid side may vary from bad to worse.

1. Divorce
2. Torture
3. Suicide
4. Murder 


Probable Solution - It is to motivate the new generation with correct ideologies and thinking process, which includes the men(groom), women(bride), the bride's family and the future prospective bride grooms.

FOR MEN :

1) Are u happy to be looked upon like items sold in market? Did u realize u are priced and traded as per the cost determined, by the society for your social background and education?

2) Please feel ASHAMED TO BE BRANDED AS PRODUCTS SOLD, to be bought by affordable girls and their parents.

3) You are inviting a partner to share your life and love. She is equal to you in every-way. Neither have u done a sacrifice by marrying her nor has she, so where is the question of money involved? Love her for her
character, not for her money.

4) The aspirations and aims, should be achieved by one's own hard efforts. The pride of touching your dreams, with your own dedication is unique. TRY FOR IT.

5) Woman fulfills your needs as regards food, laundry, house-maintenance, sex, bear your children, guard the house, earn for you. All those people who ask dowry, with your clever mathematical skill, if u calculate monetarily, YOU OWE A SUBSTANTIAL AMOUNT TO YOUR WIFE.

6) In olden days, there used to be Contests in various forms, to test the skills of men in the fields of intelligence, strength, character and appeal. Guess you fall into the lucky era where YOU assess the girl in multiple aspects.

FOR WOMEN :


1) Take an oath not to marry any person who demands dowry.

2) Be brave when you face situations of adverse effects. Fully believe that you are in noway inferior to men. Don’t be a coward and a victim of torture.

3) If they harass u beyond any particular limit, GET A DIVORCE. Committing Suicide is NOT the solution. Life does NOT become futile, for one worthless human being or a family.

4) Divorcees can earn a good living, through any decent job. If u don’t have children, spend the money for good cause. Do social service. If u succeed in meeting any man, who can live up to your expectation, marry him.

5) The society does not look down upon divorcees anymore. If u accidentally happen to hear any wounding words, DON'T CARE A PENNY FOR IT. It is better than tolerating wounding words against your parents by some unworthy in-laws.

6) Sit and talk with your parents. Explain them your desires. Do not be forced into any marriage.

7) Sit and talk with your future in-laws and fiance as to yours expectations. Do not just pose before them, for their acceptance of your appearance alone. You are much more than just your physical appearance. Ask them their demands, dreams, aims, expectations. This would surely lead to happy marriage from both sides.

8) Be a part of planning your marriage. Know the reasons, causes, and sources of expenses. Do not be ignorant of your parents’ hardships. If they spend on any unwanted item, which is either not demanded upon or is unnecessary, then, CUT THOSE EXPENSES.

9) Ladies should understand and think about this problem as a curse to womanhood. Forget that u are a groom’s mother or sister or relative. YOU ARE A WOMAN. Rules don’t change because you accidentally happen to be groom’s relatives. IT IS A SHAME, TO FIND THAT THE PRESSURE ON DOWRY, AND DEATH DUE TO DOWRY, IS PRIMARILY BECAUSE OF WOMEN WHO STAND ON THE OTHER SIDE AND DEMAND THE SAME.

FOR BRIDE'S PARENTS :

1) Parents should stop feeling burdened or sad to
have an unmarried daughter at home. The purpose of female birth is NOT ONLY marriage and re-production.

2) The parents of the bride should take primary action in abolishing dowry. Do not accept to give dowry beyond ur monetary capacity. ( Still better, SAY NO TO DOWRY)

3) Sending the unmarried daughter or divorcee for higher studies or a good job, would increase her confidence and your happiness.

4) When the bride faces inhuman tortures in her in-laws place, DO NOT SEND HER BACK, at the cost of her life. Re-marriage is not at all a weird idea to consider.

FOR FUTURE PROSPECTIVE BRIDE GROOMS :

1)Nowadays the trend is to settle thro ur hard-earned money, not ur parents, not ur in-laws.

2)Buy necessary items for basic living, even before u invite ur life partner to share ur life. That’s the best gift u can give her, rather than roses and cards on valentine's day.

3)If she is also an earning member, sit with ur fiancée, plan out the necessary items, and share the cost equally.

4)Talk to ur parents, and make them agree, to share the marriage cost equally! (food, choultry and other extravaganzas)

5) If possible try to settle for simple marriage, and a small party afterwards.

6) Do not allow your life to be ruled, by third parties comments or demands as to your fiancée’s status, looks or her economic background. They are people who sadistically comment and contribute NOTHING towards your welfare during the times of distress. (I hear by mean 3rd parties, and NOT bride groom's parents).
 [Partly taken from the very interesting thread by Shakthi from mayyam.com]


       2) Female Infanticide - Female infanticide is also a major problem in India accelerated by the invention of tools such as the ultrasound scan as couples can now abort their babies selectively. Although sex-selective abortion has been banned since 1994, it has not been enforced. The imbalanced sex ratio is a clear indicator of the female infanticide that still occurs in modern day India. Such selective infanticide is most probably due to cultural practices and norms. Boys are favoured due to socio-economic factors such as needing extra labour on the farms, especially when India was mostly agriculture-based. A girl has been considered a liability for centuries, according to tradition as well as the demand for dowry, which is known to be able to cripple a family financially. According to an article on BBC NEWS in 2006 “India ‘loses 10m female births’”, “Researchers in India and Canada for the Lancet journal said prenatal selection and selective abortion was causing the loss of 500,000 girls a year.”

According to a recent report by the United Nations Children's Fund (UNICEF) up to 50 million girls and women are missing from India's population as a result of systematic gender discrimination in India. In most countries in the world, there are approximately 105 female births for every 100 males.
 In India, there are less than 93 women for every 100 men in the population. The accepted reason for such a disparity is the practice of female infanticide in India, prompted by the existence of a dowry system which requires the family to pay out a great deal of money when a female child is married. For a poor family, the birth of a girl child can signal the beginning of financial ruin and extreme hardship.
However this anti-female bias is by no means limited to poor families. Much of the discrimination is to do with cultural beliefs and social norms. These norms themselves must be challenged if this practice is to stop.
Diagnostic teams with ultrasound scanners which detect the sex of a child advertise with catchlines such as spend 600 rupees now and save 50,000 rupees later.
The implication is that by avoiding a girl, a family will avoid paying a large dowry on the marriage of her daughter. According to UNICEF, the problem is getting worse as scientific methods of detecting the sex of a baby and of performing abortions are improving.
These methods are becoming increasing available in rural areas of India, fuelling fears that the trend towards the abortion of female foetuses is on the increase.
 [Taken from an article published by UNICEF, online source : www.causes.com ]


 When asked about some of the reasons of female infanticide in India on a public forum by BBC, people from different segments of the world answered -

1) The real problem in India is the appallingly low status of women. ~ Caroline, UK
2) I feel the root of the problem lies in certain sections of the people and their mindset. ~ Kamal, USA
3) Enlightenment will only come through the spread of education and improved economic conditions~ Arni Narain, UK
4) Other problems along with this, like the caste system, religious intolerance, abject poverty and rampant corruption have eaten into the moral structure of the society. ~ Ashok, USA
5) The Indian government to its credit has attempted to improve the lot of girls by providing them with free education, meals during school hours, vaccination. ~ Ken Bhandary, USA
6) There is a strong belief that having a female child is expensive when it come to marriage and dowry. ~ MAK, USA/India
7) We have imposed our values and morality on other cultures for too long. ~ Phil Saum, UK
8) Female infanticide is due to parents wishing their children to survive and - most important - provide for them when they are old. ~ Andrej, Russia
9) The answer is obvious, education is everything. ~ Abs, UK


Probable Solution

Already working - 
- Govt launched Cradle Baby Scheme, to convince parents not to kill, but surrender unwanted baby girls to the state. So far more than 500 baby girls have been handed over to state officials, who claim every baby surrendered is a life saved. Law enforcement are treating every suspicious infant death as a homicide. You know how the enforcement works!
- Too many couples - aided by medical technology, unethical doctors, and weak enforcement of laws banning abortion on the basis of gender - are electing to end a pregnancy if the fetus is female. Govt now banned sex determination during ultra-sound check up!



Plans to work in near future - 
 

 -Adoption should be openly welcome and Govt should help families (with incentives) to encourage bold decision.

  - Govt can't do this alone! Local charities, teachers, students should volunteer and report such things to local law enforcement. Take all un-registered nurses (maruthuvachi) into custody! Every town/village in rural India should have health office (first thing they should have current). This will take few years to accomplish, together we can all make a difference.
 - Free education for women upto college and even post graduate education in government run institutions (Similar plans are being implemented in many states in India)

- Indian males should stand up to their own moms and dads when they start chirping about unwanted female children.

- Come down hard on eve teasing and harassment activities in states that practice infanticide. The harassment arises out of the same attitude that causes infanticide down the line. A few "good boys" will end up behind bars, but it will be a better lesson than reminding them that their sisters and mothers are women too. That carrot approach does not seem to be working well anyway.

- Create a feminine movement so that women feel a sisterhood towards each other and stand up for a woman in a neighboring house rather than turn a blind eye.

- Refuse marriage of women into households or be very careful of families that have only male children or a very high percentage of males. Chances are high that they did you know what. Again, a few innocents will be in needless trouble, but sometimes poisonous and normal snakes look alike and it is better to get out a stick and protect your own daughters and sisters.

- Do not provide any government incentives to families that have only males. Again the bad snake good snake logic applies. But that is OK. Consider it payback for all the dead female children.

- Provide extra incentives for families that have more than one girl child. This will help correct the gender balance in a few years.

- If you have a female child, rub it in other peoples faces by educating her and providing her the same opportunities as a male child. This is the one thing that makes female killing folks look foolish and dumb.

- Encourage marriage of males to educated women. A lot of mother-in-laws are scared of educated women as they cannot practice infanticide in those cases.

3) Sati - Prohibited in 1920, this practice may still have an impact of women’s mindsets today. Sati is the voluntary or forced killing of a widow once her husband has passed away. Widows were considered unholy and impure. This greatly defines women in relation to her husband and reinforces the mindset that women must submit to men and cannot have a life without their husbands. Although prohibited a long time ago, this tradition has taken many decades to be eradicated. Even now in rural areas of India, Sati is not unheard of.
 When it is abolished nearly 100 years ago, why is it still a burning issue ?
This is well covered by the famous newspaper "The Times Of India " on their
"Last week, 60-year-old Sharbati Bai attempted to commit sati on her husband's pyre in Rajasthan's Sikar district. She couldn't because the village and the police stopped her just in time.

Roop Kanwar, India's last known sati, was not so lucky 20 years ago. Has Rajasthan finally won the war against the practice of sati?

When Roop Kanwar was burnt to death in 1987, it was said her act was abetted by her husband's family and the whole village, though this was never established in a court of law. Fast forward 22 years and just a few km from the spot in Deorala where the bride of eight months was publicly burnt, a whole village prevented an old widow from burning herself at the altar of custom!

What does this mean, if anything? Has India finally been able to stamp out sati, almost 21 years after it brought in anti-Sati legislation? Yes, say sociologists who work against sati in the area. But they add that even though the custom has been dying a slow death since the law came about, the myth remains, which is why a Sharbati Bai still tries to do a Roop Kanwar.

Kavita Srivastava, general secretary of the People's Union for Civil Liberties, Rajasthan, has been actively working to discourage the practice since 1987. She says "the law has very effective in preventing the making of a sati" but adds that "it has not been equally successful in preventing the glorification of sati even though it has been rendered a crime."

Srivastava says Roop Kanwar was independent India's 40th sati but the law has done what it should have - made the practice too dangerous to abet. "Most reported cases have taken place in the Shekhawati belt of Rajasthan or in Madhya Pradesh.

"And most of these areas are where the Sati is glorified, where there are sati temples and pujas are still conducted," she says.

But even though sati may be simply falling out fashion, but women's activists and legal experts are worried it may be revived for commercial reasons. India has at least 250 sati temples and the ruling on pujas is too ambiguous to be preventive, they say. Srivastava describes the industry that thrived around Roop Kanwar's horrific public death. "It was followed by congregations and festivals, and attempts were made to collect funds for the construction of a temple at the site, although the efforts were thwarted after widespread protests and legal intervention."

A sati temple has always been a big draw. Some temples are thought to be as old as the custom itself, which is believed to have originated 700 years ago among Rajasthan's ruling warrior community. It was first declared illegal in India as far back as 1829 by Lord William Bentinck, then Governor-General of the East India Company, largely because of Raja Ram Mohan Roy's activist efforts.

Dr Sarvesh Dhillon, former history professor at Amritsar's Guru Nanak Dev University, says: "As per the records kept by the Bengal Presidency of the British East India Company, the known occurrences in 1813-1828 were 8,135. Raja Ram Mohan Roy estimated 10 times as many cases of sati in Bengal compared to the rest of the country. In modern times, sati has been largely confined to Rajasthan, with a few instances in the Gangetic plain."

Dhillon says many Muslim such as Akbar, Jahangir and Aurangzeb, and some Christian rulers have attempted to stop the practice.

But almost two centuries after Bentinck's law and two decades after the anti-sati Act, activists say it is significant that there are discreet congregations at the Rani Sati temple complex in Jhunjhunu, which is called the fountainhead of sati. "Sometimes, the glorification may be difficult to prove as the rituals are conducted in the name of individual pujas," says Srivastava.

The National Commission for Women recently suggested amendments to the law to prohibit worship at ancient shrines. Kirti Singh, legal convener of the All India Democratic Women's Association, says the glorification continues "but it is a battle that we can wage because we have the Act, which defines glorification and criminalizes it."
 The war on sati is not over then."
Since it is nearly negligible as of the present times, that is why we can nearly place it in the category of "Already eradicated in India."
This is the table which will show the major type of crimes in our country and their yearly rise/decline(mostly rise, sadly).

Sl No. Crime Head Year
2006
Year
2007
Year
2008
Year
2009
Year
2010
Year
2011
Year
2012
Percentage
Variation
in
2012
over
2011
1 Rape
(Sec. 376 IPC)
19,348 20,737 21,467 21,397 22,172 24,206 24,923 3.0
2 Kidnapping & Abduction
(Sec. 363 to 373 IPC)
17,414 20,416 22,939 25,741 29,795 35,565 38,262 7.6
3 Dowry Death
(Sec 302/304 IPC)
7,618 8,093 8,172 8,383 8,391 8,618 8,233 -4.5
4 Torture
(Sec. 498-A IPC)
63,128 75,930 81,344 89,546 94,041 99,135 1,06,527 7.5
5 Molestation
(Sec. 354 IPC)
36,617 38,734 40,413 38,711 40,613 42,968 45,351 5.5
6 Sexual Harassment
(Sec. 509 IPC)
9,966 10,950 12,214 11,009 9,961 8,570 9,173 7.0
7 Importation of Girls
(Sec. 366-B IPC)
67 61 67 48 36 80 59 -26.3
8 Sati Prevention Act, 1987 0 0 1 0 0 1 0 -100.0
9 Immoral Traffic
(Prevention) Act, 1956
4,541 3,568 2,659 2,474 2,499 2,435 2,563 5.3
10 Indecent Representation of Women
(Prohibition) Act, 1986
1,562 1,200 1,025 845 895 453 141 -68.9
11 Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961 4,504 5,623 5,555 5,650 5,182 6,619 9,038 36.5

Total 1,64,765 1,85,312 1,95,856 2,03,804 2,13,585 2,28,650 2,44,270 6.8
  [Taken from women empowerment in india's data-base]

A total of 2,44,270 incidents of crime against women (both under IPC and SLL) were reported in the country during the year 2012 as compared to 2,28,650 in the year 2011 recording an increase of 6.4% during the year 2012. These crimes have continuously increased during 2008 – 2012 with 1,95,856 cases in the year 2008, 2,03,804 cases in 2009 and 2,13,585 cases in 2010 and 2,28,650 cases in 2011 and 2,44,270 cases in the year 2012. West Bengal with 7.5% share of country’s female population has accounted for nearly 12.7% of total crime against women by reporting 30,942 cases during the year 2012.



Employment and Education - The women in India are not represented in the workforce either. They mostly work as farmers or other occupations that are not recorded in the Census counts. Only about 3 or 4 per cent of women’s labour is recorded and acknowledged.

This outrageous oppression by males is a vicious cycle. Majority of women are not educated. Although many movements have been targeted to increase the literacy of Indian women, they focus mainly on the enrollment but not the retention of girls in school. More than half of the girls who are enrolled into a school drop out of it while most of the boys stay on. This lack of education will therefore lead to the fact that women are not empowered to break out of their suppressed spheres of life. While male domination is the cause of such inequality, the females have a part of play in consenting to the perpetuation of such a practice. Without education, women will not be able to contribute significantly to the country’s economy and that reinforces how women can only work in the domestic arena.











Women Empowerment in India



Actions Taken to Empower Women on the whole :

Millennium Development Goal

The United Nations Development Programme constituted eight Millennium Development Goals (MDG) for ensuring equity and peace across the world. The third MDG is directly related to the empowerment of women in India. The MDGs are agreed-upon goals to reduce certain indicators of disparity across the world by the year 2015.
The third MDG is centred towards promoting gender equality and empowering women: “Eliminate gender disparity in primary and secondary education, preferably by 2005, and in all levels of education by no later than 2015”
While India’s progress in this front has been brave, there are quite a few corners that it needs to cut before it can be called as being truly revolutionary in its quest for understanding what is women empowerment. As UNDP says:-
India missed the 2005 deadline of eliminating gender disparity in primary and secondary education. However, the country has hastened progress and the Gender Parity Index (GPI) for Gross Enrolment Ratios (GER) in primary and secondary education has risen. Given current trends, India is moderately or almost nearly on track. However, as the Government of India MDG Report 2009 notes, “participation of women in employment and decision-making remains far less than that of men, and the disparity is not likely to be eliminated by 2015.” Achieving GPI in tertiary education also remains a challenge. In addition, the labour market openness to women in industry and services has only marginally increased from 13-18 percent between 1990-91 and 2004-05.

Ministry for Women & Child Development

The Ministry for Women & Child Development was established as a department of the Ministry of Human Resource Development in the year 1985 to drive the holistic development of women and children in the country. In 2006 this department was given the status of a Ministry, with the powers to:-
Formulate plans, policies and programmes; enacts/ amends legislation, guiding and coordinating the efforts of both governmental and non-governmental organisations working in the field of Women and Child Development.
It delivers such initiatives such as the Integrated Child Development Services (ICDS) which is a package of services such as supplementary nutrition, health check-ups and immunisation. As mentioned earlier, the empowerment of women begins with their safety and health and this Ministry is committed to providing them.
Swayamsidha Programme
Additionally, the Ministry is also implementing the Swayamsidha programme – an integrated scheme for the empowerment of women at a total cost of Rs. 116.30 Crores. Core to this programme will be the establishment of women’s self-help groups which will empower women to have increased access to all kinds of resources that they are denied, in addition to increasing their awareness and skills. This programme will benefit about 9,30,000 women with the setting up of 53,000 self-help groups, 26,500 village societies and 650 block societies.
National Commission for Women
The National Commission for Women is a Department within the Ministry of Women and Child Development. It was set up exclusively to help women via the Constitution – by reviewing Legal and Constitutional safeguards for women, recommending remedial legislative measures, by facilitating quick redressal of grievances and by advising the Government of India on all policy matters affecting women.
The website allows for online submission of complaints and fast redressal exclusively for women. Additionally it is also a good resource of information for women and the Commission is committed to helping out women in need.
 [The actions are wholly taken from women empowerment in india]



The Journey Ahead -

India as a country is still recovering from years of abuse in the time of the Raj and more years of economic suffering at the hands of the License Raj. It is only now that globalization, liberalization and other socio-economic forces have given some respite to a large proportion of the population. However, there are still quite a few areas where women empowerment in India is largely lacking.

To truly understand what is women empowerment, there needs to be a sea-change in the mind-set of the people in the country. Not just the women themselves, but the men have to wake up to a world that is moving towards equality and equity. It is better that this is embraced earlier rather than later, for our own good.
Swami Vivekananda once said “arise away and stop not until the goal is reached”. Thus our country should thus be catapulted into the horizon of empowerment of women and revel in its glory.
We have a long way to go, but we will get there someday. We shall overcome.


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This is the first blog i worked on for such a long time, many of it is constructed by me and many of the data, facts and figures, some of the writings has been taken from the mentioned sources. Please bear with the mistakes, and correct me in every possible ways. Suggestions are surely getting a warm welcome from all the doors.

Thank You.

Friday, 21 February 2014

Your Look [The first poem I wrote in my life]

Date : 24th May, 2008
Time : 04:00 PM         




You look so pretty,
you are so bright,
you look so naughty,
as well as tight.


You are so good,
so I will nod.


You are so bright,
just like sun's light.
You are the one,
who is my one.


You are like summer,
which comes and glows.
You are like winter,
which spreads too cold.


You are the monsoon,
which comes too soon.
You are the rainy season,
which can't be beaten.

You Are The . . . . . . .

Date : 22nd Nov, 2009
Time : 03:30 PM         


You are the sun in my day, the wind in my sky,
the waves in my ocean, and the beat in my heart.


All my dreams came true the day that I met you.
I Love You !


You are the sunshine of my life ! Thanks for brightening
my world with the warmth of your Love. . .


You are the fire that burns the passion within my soul.
I love you with all my heart. . .


I want to be in your arms, I want to feel your touch,
I want your lips on mine, I need you very much,
Forever and Ever and Ever and Ever Baby !!!

I LOVE YOU (For the love of my life)

Date : 26th October, 2009
Time : [ Every time(moment)
 in my life time]




For you my sweet angel I would die,
I'd pick all the stars from the sky,
and give them all just for you,
to let you know how much I LOVE YOU.


My angel I'll love you through all eternity,
I would do anything for you sweetie.
I wrote this poem from my heart,
to let you know, you're my SWEETHEART.


Please stay with me forever,
take my hand and let's be together.
Let's fly up to the heavens above,
and show everyone that we are in love.


Yes Jaan I LOVE YOU the most,
and I think you love me too,
But still, always more I do,
with all the zeal from inner core of heart,
I say again, PRINCESS I LOVE YOU !

Open My Heart

Date : 16th Nov, 2009
Time : 11:15 AM        


Open my heart,
seeing that you already have the key.
Open my heart,
to meet with the pleasure of your life.
Open my heart,
so far you will find your heart's desire.
Open my heart,
to come across your life wonders.
Open my heart,
to determine that it was for good.
Open my heart,
to get to know utterly its aspiration.
Open my heart,
in order to find what i devoted for you.
Open my heart,
that's the only way to verify the truth.
Open my heart,
to find no difficulty to trust me.
Open my heart,
this is where resides the true love.
Open my heart,
I'm so exhausted to give evidence of love.
Open my heart,
I can resist no more, even for a second.
Open my heart,
. . .and that would be a passionate triumph !